Amit Raj Author, Learner and Trader

  I. The Nature of Fleeting Feelings There is something heartbreakingly beautiful about being human. We are vessels for feelings too vast to contain, too delicate to hold for long. One moment we are caught in a burst of laughter that shakes our chest, and the next we find ourselves looking at a chair once occupied by someone who is now only a memory. The emotion—whether joy or sorrow—never truly stays. It visits, resides for a moment like a passing guest, and then leaves us with the echo of its presence. Why can’t we long live an emotion? Why do even the deepest loves fade into nostalgia, and even the darkest pains soften into the dull ache of remembrance? Because emotions were never meant to be permanent. They are waves, not statues. Currents, not anchors. They move through us—rippling, crashing, caressing—and then they move on. If they stayed forever, we would break. II. Happiness as a Mirage Consider happiness—the fleeting kind, the one that arises when you see...

In a world that constantly demands our speed, performance, and perfection, we often overlook the very moments that make us feel alive. But if you pause—just for a breath—you’ll notice the world inside your home is filled with quiet magic. A magic that asks for nothing, yet gives everything. Cherish it. Cherish the moments that seem ordinary. Because they’re not. They’re pieces of your own living poem. Feel the silent language of love in the way your mother adjusts your blanket even when you’re asleep. In the way your father silently watches over you from across the room, not saying much, but saying everything in that stillness. The walls of your home have heard your laughter, your outbursts, your silence—they know the real you. The sun sneaking through the window in the early morning, dancing on your face before the alarm clock goes off—it’s not just sunlight, it’s a reminder that another day has come, another chance to live, to love, to remember. Feel the gentle trickle of rain throug...

  Sometimes, a single message from someone you’ve touched through your writing brings back the very essence of why you wrote in the first place. Today, I want to share such a moment — not just as a reply, but as a reminder to anyone who has ever walked away from home with a heavy heart. After publishing my recent blog, "The Journey from the Grabs of Loneliness" , I received this moving message: “I came to my hometown for a day to stay with family and for some work, and I’m going back to Kolkata—my workplace. Like every time, even this time, my nose is all red, eyes have swollen, and it’s all blurry in front. I can recall your blog. The warm dal chawal served without even asking, the return to warmth: it’s all in front of me today. It has been this way always. We say we are habitual now, but the heart still aches, we still turn around to see our home—our safe place—again. If average means settling at home with less education, shared responsibility, dinner with family—I ...

  “Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here. Let’s take a few thoughtful moments together.” 💬 A Message That Moved Me A few days ago, I received a heartfelt message for my blog “ The Journey from the Grabs of Loneliness. ” It said: “Amit, this one really touched me. Felt like you wrote my own story — that phase of enjoying solitude turning into silent loneliness, you nailed it. It felt like you have put into words everything I’ve felt but never said. The way you described coming back home, the comfort in little things like food and family — it hit deep. So raw, so real. Felt like my own journey. Please keep writing.” Reading this didn’t just warm my heart — it reignited my purpose. The fact that someone connected so deeply with my words reminded me of the power of expression. It felt relaxing, satisfying, and — most importantly — motivating. That single note of appreciation became the nudge that pushed me to sit down again, and write this very piece. ✍️ Why We Choose to Write There...

  At some point in life, we all encounter the slow but strong grasp of loneliness. It may appear during our time away from home for studies or work, or perhaps during phases of personal isolation where decisions and consequences weigh heavy on our hearts. But what if loneliness, rather than being a void, is actually a doorway—a silent teacher that leads us back to something far more profound: the truth that we were never truly alone? Why Are Humans—and Even Animals—Social? From the dawn of time, human beings have thrived in groups. We built tribes, communities, cities, and civilizations not just to share resources, but because companionship is coded into our very biology. Just like packs of wolves or pods of dolphins, we are designed to live with others. Being part of a family or a society isn’t just a cultural construct—it’s a survival mechanism. We care for each other, watch each other’s backs, share responsibilities, grieve and rejoice together. In fact, even when you choo...

Dear Fellow Traders and Learners, Intraday trading is a high-stakes arena that rewards preparation, discipline, and quick decision-making. However, without proper risk management, even the most skilled traders can find themselves facing significant losses. Whether you're trading in stocks or Futures & Options (F&O), a well-defined risk management plan can make all the difference. Here's a comprehensive example of checklist to help you navigate the complexities of intraday trading with a capital of ₹50,000. 1. Define Risk Per Trade Risking 1-2% of your capital per trade is a golden rule. For ₹50,000, this translates to a maximum loss of ₹500 per trade. Set your stop-loss levels accordingly to cap potential losses. Example Formula : Stop Loss = Entry Price × % Risk. If a stock is priced at ₹200, and your risk is 1%, your stop-loss should be at ₹198. 2. Position Sizing for Safety Position sizing ensures you don't overexpose yourself to risk. Calculate the number of sha...

  The Prelude of Life When we were young, in our teens and 20s, it felt like we had life all figured out. There was this unwavering confidence that the world was ours for the taking, and every decision we made seemed like it would lead us straight to happiness and fulfillment. Back then, looking at people in their 40s or 50s felt almost alien. They seemed “old” or “past their prime,” like the best years of their lives were long behind them. It was easy to believe that everything important, everything exciting, happened when you were young. But then, I reached my 40s, and I realized just how misguided that thinking really was. When you look back on your younger years, you start to see the patterns, the misguided beliefs, and the illusions that shaped your decisions. You realize that the first few decades of life often feel like survival mode. In those years, it’s all about chasing the things we’re told will make us happy: 1.    Success: We’re taught to believe tha...